When I first began knitting, I was so enamored by the idea of giving people things I made with my own hands that I volunteered to make a great many projects for people. Since those early days of naivete, I've learned a few crucial things every knitter should know before offering to make something for someone else:
1) Set ground rules about the yarn. Key points: fiber, weight, and color. Make absolutely certain that your recipient knows that you will not knit a sweater out of black, fingering weight acryllic, for example. If necessary, offer to go to the yarn store with them, or to select the yarn yourself. Above all else, DO NOT AGREE TO USE YARN YOU WILL HATE. I cannot emphasize that enough.
2) The project should be within your 2S limit. The two s's are sanity and skill. If you have never done a lace project, don't agree to knit the most complex lace pattern you've ever seen for someone. If you absolutely loathe seaming, do not agree to make a project that requires you to use that horrible little needle with the eye more than your beloved pointy sticks.
3) Lastly, make a gift of your choosing for someone, particularly if they have no idea what options there are for hand-knit items. If they show the faintest hesitation when you ask what they would like you to make, start suggesting projects that you would be interested in making. Or take the decision out of their hands entirely and tell them you will surprise them.
4) Consider the usage quotient. You'll want to think about how often the recipient will wear or use the object you're making them. If you think the chances are low that they'll use your hand-knit, make it something simple so you won't regret the time and money you spent. If they end up wearing your hand-knit every day, add them to the Deserving-Of-Hand-Knits List. If they put away your knitting and never look at it again, well, there's a list for those people too.
If you observe these rules whenever you think about making a gift for someone, you'll be a much happier knitter. Trust me.
Sinister
5 hours ago